TOP TEN THINGS THAT TURN HIM OFF - WE HEAR FROM MEN


WHAT IS THE WORST THING A WOMAN CAN DO WHEN DATING A MAN? WE WENT TO THE SOURCE AND SURVEYED 100 MEN. HERE ARE THEIR TOP TEN RESPONSES.


1. DON'T BE TOO NEEDY 

Men absolutely hate it when a girl seems too desperate. If you are constantly clinging to him and acting like your life revolves around him, it could turn him away very quickly.  Try and remember that a guy likes a girl that is independent and has interests. This doesn't mean that you can't turn to him in time of need. It is in men's nature to help and fix things.  My mother told me something when I was very young and I'm passing this on to you.  She asked me, "What happens in nature when something gets chased"?  Then she gave me the definitive answer, "They run".  She told me that when it comes to relationships, the only thing I should ever chase are my dreams and aspirations.  Let him do the thinking and then do the chasing.  Feel me? 


2. DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR EX BOYFRIEND

Your boyfriend is not your girlfriend.  No matter how sweet he is,  or how well he pretends to be listening.  He absolutely does not give a damn about another man who put his penis in you. Got it?  If the mood strikes, shut it down, go into another room and dial a girlfriend.


3. A FOUL MOUTH

Although its true a man does like to get a bit crazy in the bedroom.  The old adage apparently still holds true.  He likes a woman to act like a lady.  Keep the bad language at bay.  He is still wondering if he can bring you home to his parents.


4. BAD ORAL HYGIENE

Carry some gum ladies, just in case.  Bad breath - was a big one on the list of turn offs. The men just will not be eager to kiss again, if your breath is bad.


5. A WOMAN NEVER OFFERING TO PAY

Men are still chivalrous and it is okay to expect him to treat you when he has asked you out on a date.  However, they would really like it if every once in a while you gave them a break and offered to take them out.  It shows them you are interested but also giving.



6. A LIAR

Even a small lie can make a man lose interest in the beginning.  It makes him wonder what else you could hide from him.


7. DON'T BE TOO OVERBEARING

A guy can make his own decision ladies. You don't have to become his mother and take care of him. If you keep telling him what to do, he is bound to get resentful.


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8. DON'T FIGHT WITH A MAN 

We are not saying that you cant disagree about things.  Lets be reasonable here.  But, when a woman gets in the ring with a man you become the opposing party.  The next time you find yourself pushing for a fight, think about this one thing...would you rather have a man in the ring preparing for conflict or in the bed with you preparing to nurture you?


9. TRYING TO CHANGE HIM

Lets face it.  There was something that drew you to this man in the beginning. So, when you get more attached, remember that he is who he is.  Take him or leave him. But don't dare try and change him.


10. CONSTANTLY TEXTING WHEN YOU ARE WITH HIM

He wants and needs your attention as much as you need his.  If he has taken the time to ask you out on a date, have the courtesy to put your phone down.  Save the gossip and the selfies for later.


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